Be impeccable with your word

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I read a book, it is one of the best books I have read because I have made the words in the book to be my holy book. The words are my national anthem. I read the book and listened to the audiobook and it resonated through me. I want to share this with you all because I believe if we can actually be as the book says we can live a peaceful life with ourselves. The name of this book is the Four Agreement by Don Miguel Ruiz. this books state that if we can live with this four agreement then we can be at peace with one’s self.

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The first agreement is to be impeccable with one’s word. You word is your bound. You are your word, you are what you say. So to be impeccable with your word is for your word to be without sin. To not say what you do not mean and to not make your words be a sin. Impeccability with ones word is not using your word against yourself. If I see you and call you stupid, it appears would appear I am using the word against you but truly I am using it against myself, because you’re going to hate me and you hating me is not good for me. If I loved myself I will express that love in my interactions with you and I am been impeccable with my word, because that action will produce a like reaction. This I think is the hardest one for me to learn and master, to be impeccable with my words cause It is through our word we express our creative power and it is through that same word we manifest everything. your intent manifest through our word. What we dream, feel, and what we really are, will all be manifested through our word. The word is a force; it is the power you have to express and communicate, to think, and thereby to create the events in our life’s.


Our word is a powerful tool but like a sword with two edges, our word can create the most beautiful dream, or our word can destroy everything around us. Our word is pure magic and misuse of it is black magic. Our words are so powerful that we can plant different seed in someone’s mind with our word. The seeds are opinions, ideas, and concepts. You plant a seed, a thought, and it grows. The word is like a seed and the our mind is so fertile but only for the kinds of seeds we are prepared for. What is important is to see what kind of seeds our mind is fertile for, and to prepare it to receive the seeds of love. We are all magician and our word is our spell, so we can either put a spell on someone or release them from a spell. We can’t spell all the time with our opinions . During our childhood, our parents and siblings or people around us gave their opinions about us without even thinking. We believed these opinions and we lived in fear over these opinions, like not been good at school, sports or writing. Someone gives an opinion and says, “look, that girl is ugly” if she listens, believes she is ugly, and grows up with the idea that she is ugly. It doesn’t matter how beautiful she is; as long as she has that agreement, she will believe that she is ugly and that is the spell she is under. By hooking our attention, the word can enter our mind and change a whole belief for better or worse.

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If I love you, then you will love me. If I insult you, you will insult me. If I have gratitude for you, you will have gratitude for me. If I’m selfish with you, you will be selfish with me. If I use the word to put a spell on you, you are going to put a spell on me.
Being impeccable with your word is the correct use of your energy; it means to use your energy in the direction of truth and love for yourself. If you make an agreement with yourself to be impeccable with your word, just with that intention, the truth will manifest through you and clean all the emotional poison that exists within you. But making this agreement is difficult because we have learned to do precisely the opposite. We have learned to lie as a habit of our communication with others and more importantly with ourselves. We are not impeccable with the word. The power of the word is completely misused in hell. We use the word to curse, to blame, to find guilt, to destroy. Of course, we also use it in the right way, but not too often. Mostly we use the word to spread our personal poison  to express anger, jealousy, envy, and hate. The word is pure magic the most powerful gift we have as humans and we use it against ourselves. We plan revenge. We create chaos with the word. We use the word to create hate between different races, between different people, between families, between nations. We misuse the word so often, and this misuse is how we create and perpetuate the dream of hell. Misuse of the word is how we pull each other down and keep each other in a state of fear and doubt. Because the word is the magic that humans possess and misuse of the word is black magic, we are using black magic all the time without knowing that our word is magic at all. Whenever you hear an opinion and believe it, we make an agreement, and it becomes part of our belief system. An example: You awake in the morning feeling very happy. You feel so wonderful, you stay one or two hours in front of the mirror, making yourself beautiful. Well, one of your best friends says, “What has happened to you? You look so ugly. Look at the dress you are wearing; you look ridiculous.” That’s it; that is enough to put you all the way down in hell. Maybe this girlfriend just told you this to hurt you. And, she did. She gave you an opinion with all the power of her word behind it. If you accept the opinion, it becomes an agreement now, and you put all your power into that opinion. That opinion becomes black magic. These types of spells are difficult to break. The only thing that can break a spell is to make a new agreement based on truth.


The truth is the most important part of being impeccable with your word. On one side of the sword are the lies which create black magic, and on the other side of the sword is the truth which has the power to break the spell of black magic. Only the truth will set us free. Looking at everyday human interactions, imagine how many times we cast spells on each other with our word. Over time this interaction has become the worst form of black magic, and we call it gossip. Gossip is black magic at its very worst because it is pure poison. We learned how to gossip by agreement. When we were children, we heard the adults around us gossiping all the time, openly giving their opinions about other people. They even had opinions about people they didn’t know. Emotional poison was transferred along with the opinions, and we learned this as the normal way to communicate. Gossiping has become the main form of communication in human society. It has become the way we feel close to each other, because it makes us feel better to see someone else feel as badly as we do. There is an old expression that says, “Misery likes company,” and people who are suffering in hell don’t want to be all alone. Fear and suffering are an important part of the dream of the planet; they are how the dream of the planet keeps us down.
For years we have received the gossip and spells from the words of others, but also from the way we use our word with ourselves. We talk to ourselves constantly and most of the time we say things like, “Oh, I look fat, I look ugly. I’m getting old, I’m losing my hair. I’m stupid, I never understand anything. I will never be good enough, and I’m never going to be perfect.” Do you see how we use the word against ourselves? We must begin to understand what the word is and what the word does.If you understand the first agreement, be impeccable with your word, you begin to see all the changes that can happen in your life. Changes first in the way you deal with yourself, and later in the way you deal with other people, especially those you love the most.


If we adopt the first agreement, and become impeccable with our word, any emotional poison will eventually be cleaned from our mind and from our communication in our personal relationships, including with our pet dog or cat. Impeccability of the word will also give you immunity from anyone putting a negative spell on you. You will only receive a negative idea if your mind is fertile ground for that idea. When you become impeccable with your word, your mind is no longer fertile ground for words that come from black magic. Instead, it is fertile for the words that come from love. You can measure the impeccability of your word by your level of self-love. How much you love yourself and how you feel about yourself are directly proportionate to the quality and integrity of your word. When you are impeccable with your word, you feel good; you feel happy and at peace.

Be impeccable with your word.

Thanks for reading(I know it is a lot but I just had to download all the good information I got from the book to you guys)

Book by Don Miguel Ruiz – The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom


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